okok.... next!!! So i though he wanted to end the relationship or what because he really scare me!! For the things he said la... hmmm.... But everything was ok now... So there was an outing!!
We wanto to v'llage to eat after our lit test! Best part was cliff come along too.. wuhaha.. I was so happy... Why? hehe.. Because i can introduced him to all my sistaz and to let him know what are my friends like. I feel that is very important for a couple to know who they are mixing with and of cos, mine areall lovely ppl!!wuhaha.. For the st time cliff met my butch of frenz... everything was ok.. haha... And he saw Janice.. lalalalalala........ We stil make fun of her saying that Leonard never come. Wuhaha.. Overall the outing was fun and we went to walk walk. After that we spilt and we go off 1st... To where ar(secret) lalalala.....
okok... back to the topic i wanted to say.. I really find that is important to know ur their friend.. Why?? Hmmm.. i find that you will have a better understanding of him/her as in how is he/she like in when he/she is with their frenz... There ae some guys/girls behaved differently when they are with their gf/bf.. Some will even become a totally different person! o my god!! Is there a need? i though that who you are is who you are! No need to pretend or whatsoever... Isn't it tiring to act as a different person all the time ? Mi and cliff have discussed thia topic before and we find these type of person very faked!!!! What are they thinking.. I can understand that they wanted to potrate a better image when they are with their gd/bf but i think the correct thing to do was to let them know who are you, not who you are not... so take it or leave it!! If your guy/girl can't tolerate who you are, it means that you are not suitable for each other.
Trust me, probelms will start to surface not long after. Why? Because you will be tired of the "one" you are trying to be to pleased another party. Eventually you will start to ask yourself"What am i doing" Trust me.. It will happened!! So why pretend to be someone you are not to pleased another party and not finding another soul who love you for who you are! Isn't this better and comfortable. I myself have dry skin. Imagine a girl having dry skin, which means that the texture of my skin will be rough！I admit that i do feel uneasy about my skin, but what to do, i have to leave with it. Hey... i have been living with it for a whole 19 yrs.. haha... I am still who i am!! lalalalala
Before me and cliff start, he notice that my skin is sort of unusual。So i just tell him frankly about my skin condition. In my mind i was thinking, if he really mind then 4get it. But he don't mind!! haha.....I have asked him before and his answer was"i love who you are, not something that you don't have"hehe...love him... But i must say sorry to him cause of my skin. Not every guy can accept the fact that their gf skin is rough like don't know what! haha.. This is appearence i would say.. Just show who you are, if not he relationship will have loads of problems
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