wuhahah... okok..... Although yesterday i sleep the whole day, BUT is a very romantic and relax day for me.
Why????? haha... The reason is................. "drum roll" tata....... i went to cliff hse yesterday and all we did was SLEEP. Haha... Because the both of us didn't sleep that night before so the both of us was real tired. Lalalalalalalala.... *shy*..... I didn't know he did not sleep also till he message me 9 plus in the morning. Haha...... Then at that point of time i suddenly felt very sweet.. Wuhaha.. Don't ask me why , i also don't know how to explain where the sweetness come from... haha... lalalalala... So i reply him and we decided to eat breakfast outside his house coffee shop!!!!!! The malay shop where we had our breakfast was related to his lifestyle very closely,because his parents used to bring him there since he was a kid.Here come the main point!! I felt that i know him and his life better!!!! lalalalalaalala.... He told me alot of things about his past and everything. I really feel that communication is one of the key factor in a realtionship!!
After our breakfast we head back to his house and.................... his father was at home!!! AH!!!!!!Haha... I was so nervous because that was the first time i saw his father face to face!!!! Can you imagine how nervous and lost i am? Luckily, his father was ok and was busy doing gardening. iI said:" Hi uncle" . Haha... I realised that every father have their so-called "father looked". Hmmm......... Cliff and i chat and we talked about lots of things. Think we chatted for quite long and we decided to take a NAP! BUt who knows, we slept from 2 plus tilll 8 plus at night! Haha...
The sweet part was he was beside me and i was by his side. I mean saying goodnight everyday and u can only imagine how he look when he was sleeping or what is the feeling having him sleeping by ur side. haha.. Yesterday i really experinece it and the only thing i can say is sweet and very secure!
Although the only thing we do was sleeping, having your love one by your side is enough and is everything to you. Really very secure and relax! i find that the things couple do is very linited in SINGAPORE! THe reason being is too small here and the places we go is also very limited.
List of places and things couple do:
- shop in town (orchard, cine,bugis etc..)
- watched movie (plaza sin, town etc...)
- eat lunch or dinner and the programme after that was either to catch a movie or just hang around
- If both of them have the same interest, then they can shop for the things they like or do the activities they like
- Hang out with a group of friends
- Go to places that they haven't been to (eg. haven't been to the beach or some places with he/she)
- Club together??
- For those "sports-enthu" couple, they will engaged in their fav.sports together ( this apply to different "type" of couple as some have their own interest and lifestyle)
- Play game?
- hmm..................... supper??
Haha.. i really can't think of any. I feel that with him/her around, doin or not doing anything dosen't matter. MOst importantly is do both of you find that you have spend your time meaningfully. And the word "meaningful" means differently to every couple. For me, doing nothing just sleep and be by cliff side is already very meaningful to me because i can spend the whole day with him and is just that simple. haha.. Actually, going out and enjoy with your love one is also veri fun, but sometimes having some quiet moment just for the 2 of you is also very important. Both of you just quiet down and talk about things you want is a very comfortable and loving activities for couples!!!!!!!
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Tuesday, September 12, 2006
Firstly, sorry for the broken and low standard of english i used.. haha.... C5 for my O level English.. Haiz.. haha...
First day of work as telemarketer for prudential. Hmm.. how should i put it?? Nervous plus i felt that i am not suitable for this job. okok.... The neither the pay nor the working hours are the problem, but maybe is me which is thr problem. Wokin time:4 to 9, Pay: $6 per hrs, Actually is not bad and is quite relax too, but the problem with me was i can't bring myself to dial a phone number which belongs to a male client!!! AH!! Don't ask me why because i don't knoe the answer either. Maybe is has got to do with my character or my thinking. Ir is a thing that i need to overcome, if not i don't think i can carry on with this job.. haiz.. lalala.. haha....
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Sunday, September 03, 2006
okok.... next!!! So i though he wanted to end the relationship or what because he really scare me!! For the things he said la... hmmm.... But everything was ok now... So there was an outing!!
We wanto to v'llage to eat after our lit test! Best part was cliff come along too.. wuhaha.. I was so happy... Why? hehe.. Because i can introduced him to all my sistaz and to let him know what are my friends like. I feel that is very important for a couple to know who they are mixing with and of cos, mine areall lovely ppl!!wuhaha.. For the st time cliff met my butch of frenz... everything was ok.. haha... And he saw Janice.. lalalalalala........ We stil make fun of her saying that Leonard never come. Wuhaha.. Overall the outing was fun and we went to walk walk. After that we spilt and we go off 1st... To where ar(secret) lalalala.....
okok... back to the topic i wanted to say.. I really find that is important to know ur their friend.. Why?? Hmmm.. i find that you will have a better understanding of him/her as in how is he/she like in when he/she is with their frenz... There ae some guys/girls behaved differently when they are with their gf/bf.. Some will even become a totally different person! o my god!! Is there a need? i though that who you are is who you are! No need to pretend or whatsoever... Isn't it tiring to act as a different person all the time ? Mi and cliff have discussed thia topic before and we find these type of person very faked!!!! What are they thinking.. I can understand that they wanted to potrate a better image when they are with their gd/bf but i think the correct thing to do was to let them know who are you, not who you are not... so take it or leave it!! If your guy/girl can't tolerate who you are, it means that you are not suitable for each other.
Trust me, probelms will start to surface not long after. Why? Because you will be tired of the "one" you are trying to be to pleased another party. Eventually you will start to ask yourself"What am i doing" Trust me.. It will happened!! So why pretend to be someone you are not to pleased another party and not finding another soul who love you for who you are! Isn't this better and comfortable. I myself have dry skin. Imagine a girl having dry skin, which means that the texture of my skin will be rough！I admit that i do feel uneasy about my skin, but what to do, i have to leave with it. Hey... i have been living with it for a whole 19 yrs.. haha... I am still who i am!! lalalalala
Before me and cliff start, he notice that my skin is sort of unusual。So i just tell him frankly about my skin condition. In my mind i was thinking, if he really mind then 4get it. But he don't mind!! haha.....I have asked him before and his answer was"i love who you are, not something that you don't have"hehe...love him... But i must say sorry to him cause of my skin. Not every guy can accept the fact that their gf skin is rough like don't know what! haha.. This is appearence i would say.. Just show who you are, if not he relationship will have loads of problems
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wuhaha... a billion n zillion sorry!! hehe... havenot been writing up new entry since..........hmm.... i also don't know how long was that .. haha.. anyway... have alot of things to say...
okok... lets start with something more emotional ba... hey... love is a thing that is wonderful and not whether you are not good for that person or that person is too good for you!!! No such things!! (this is a message that i want to tell cliff ngiam!!) how come we are together in the 1st place? how come i will accept you? and how come you will chose me?? Normally, these are the question aked by either party in a relationship. Why? It's just because they are curious...Both parties need the other party to assure them of "something". Love is a important element in a relationship + chemistry+faith+trust...etc... So is not you are not suitable for me or whatsoever!!! Before you get into a relationship with someone, you muz hab that chemistry and LOVE there isn't...
Also, the basic understand of that person past and everything... I know by now i can't say i understand you fully.. but at least i can say HALF.... I know about your past and everything but i don't mind! I know how is your lifestyle like and what type of person are you!! But i didn't say i mind your lifestyle or whatsoever.. Because from the day i know you, i know your lifestyle is the way it is!! And if i mind, i will juz disappear and we are game over.. But i didn't.. Got it? Is just that simple.. Now i am with you means i accept everything and who you are... Plus, i know what i am facing with.. GOt it?? I don't mind at all.. So stop saying you don't suit my lifestyle........ We won't be what we are now if you say don't suit.. isn't it??
Argh!!!! this happened last week i think.. some misunerstanding happened between me and cliff... Just want to say that problems faced in relationship need to be overcome by the both of you... This is what the both of us think!! hehe.. lalala...
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